their mother is doing everything in her power to alienate me out of their lives! Using all the tricks in the book.
their mother is doing everything in her power to alienate me out of their lives! Using all the tricks in the book.
Dear Ronnie and Harper,
This website is created with a heart filled with love and longing for my two precious daughters, Ronnie (9) and Harper (6). The absence of your presence in my life has brought about a painful reality that I am struggling to navigate.
It saddens me to share that due to circumstances beyond our control, your mother has prevented you from visiting me in Portugal. This act, known as parental alienation, has caused a strain on our relationship and kept us separated. My dear girls, I want you to understand that everything I do, from the videos you may see to the articles on this website, is to fight for our togetherness and cherish the bond we share.
I want you to know that I am not being harsh towards your mother; she initiated this situation by keeping you away from me. Despite the challenges we face, my love for you remains unconditional and unwavering. Every day, I yearn for the moment when we can be reunited and create new memories together.
The purpose of this website is to document the battle I am undertaking to maintain contact with you and emphasize the importance of our father-daughter relationship. It serves as a testament to the love I hold for you both and the obstacles I am facing to be a part of your lives.
Ronnie and Harper, always remember that Daddy loves you more than anything in this world. Stay strong, and know that I am here, fighting for us to be together again.
With all my love,
Daddy
Dear Ronnie and Harper,
I hope this letter finds you both well. I miss you dearly, and not a day goes by without me thinking of you both. I write to you with a heavy heart to explain the current situation that has prevented us from being together.
Your mother has made it difficult for you to come see me in Portugal. I want you to know that what she is doing is a form of parental alienation - it means she is trying to keep us apart and cut me out of your lives. This is a painful situation, and I want you to understand that everything I am doing, including my videos and website, is to fight for our relationship and show you how much I love you both.
I am not trying to be mean to mommy, but she started all this by stopping you from coming to see me. I have done nothing wrong, and it hurts me that she is keeping us apart. I know how much you want to be with me, and I want you to know that my love for you is unwavering.
Please know that even though things may seem tough right now, I am fighting this battle to ensure we can be together again. The website ronilongsmith.co.uk is a way for you to understand the struggle I am facing to maintain our father-daughter bond.
I love you both more than words can express, and I will never give up on being a part of your lives. Please remember that no matter what, Daddy loves you and will always be here for you.
With all my love,
Daddy
Dear Siana,
I hope this letter finds you well. As we navigate through these challenging times, I write to you with a plea and a hope for a truce, for the sake of our precious girls and their well-being. It is my fervent wish that we can set aside our differences and come together in the spirit of peace and love, for the greater good of all involved.
Dragging out our disagreements through the courts and involving lawyers will only lead to more pain, anxiety, and stress for everyone, especially our children. This holiday season, as we approach Christmas, I implore you to consider choosing peace and love for the sake of our girls, particularly our young Roni, who has shown signs of distress due to being exposed to the legal proceedings.
I am reaching out to you in humility, begging for the opportunity to re-establish contact with our children as it was before all this turmoil began. I am willing to continue providing child maintenance, to see the girls on your terms and agreed times in Portugal, and to remove all negative references about our situation from social media.
Let us choose peace and love over conflict and discord. Let us put aside our grievances and start afresh as we approach the new year. I believe that by working together in harmony, we can create a positive and nurturing environment for our children to thrive in.
I sincerely hope that you will consider this heartfelt plea and join me in striving for a peaceful resolution for the well-being of all involved.
With hope and goodwill
READ HER REPLY
It is truly heartbreaking that my two daughters, Roni (age 9) and Harper (age 6), are currently being prevented from seeing me, their father, by their mother. As I live abroad in Portugal, the difficulties in maintaining a relationship with my children have escalated to the point where the family courts are involved. Despite my daughters spending much of their lives with me in Portugal, the mother's refusal to allow them to visit me has led to a challenging situation. Caf Cas is now indicating that it is not fair for the children to travel to Portugal, and are recommending that I come back to the UK to see them. This has added another layer of complexity. As the days pass and the children remain unable to see me, it is clear that a fair and just resolution is needed. This website will document the ongoing battle in the family courts and shed light on the importance of maintaining a meaningful parent-child relationship.
Dear Roni and Harper,
I hope you're both doing well. The weather's getting cooler here in Portugal as winter starts to settle in. With fewer tourists around, I find myself thinking about our cozy movie nights and snuggling up under blankets together. I miss our special duvet days and cuddles, the times when we would just relax and enjoy each other's company. Even though we can't be together right now, I want you to know that I think of you every day. You both mean the world to me, and I cherish the memories we've shared.
I look forward to the day when we can make new memories together, laughing, and enjoying each other's company just like old times. Until then, I'll hold onto the love and warmth you've brought into my life, and I'll be counting down the days until we can be together again.
Sending you all my love,
Daddy 27/10/24
Dear Roni and Harper,
I hope you are both doing well and taking care of each other. I miss you both more than words can say, and I want you to know that I love you with all my heart.I know you may be wondering why I haven't been able to see you as much as I would like to. Sometimes, grown-ups have disagreements and need help from other people to figure things out. Right now, mummy is not happy for you to come over, and we have to wait until she says yes. I want you to know that this doesn't change how much I care about you. I think about you every single day, and my love for you never stops. Even though we can't see each other as much as we used to, please remember that my love for you is always there, no matter what.I wish things were different, and I hope that one day, we can spend more time together. Until then, please know that I am always thinking of you and keeping you close in my heart, and I will never stop asking your mum to let me see you both. Take care of yourselves, be kind to each other, and remember that I love you more than anything in this world.
With all my love,
Daddy
07/10/2024
Dear Diary,
Today, as I sit down to write, my heart feels heavy with longing and love for my two precious girls, Roni and Harper. Oh, how I wish I could wrap them in my arms and shower them with all the love and joy that bubbles inside me every time I think of them.
Roni, my strong and caring 9-year-old, and Harper, my soon-to-be 6-year-old bundle of energy, are always on my mind. I miss their laughter, their little hands in mine, and the way they light up my world with their presence.
As their dad, it pains me that circumstances beyond our control keep us apart, but I hold onto hope for the day when we will be reunited once more. I dream of the moment when Roni and Harper will step off the plane in Portugal, where I've been preparing a special place just for them.I have so many plans for when they finally arrive - picnics on the sandy beaches of the Algarve, exploring the colourful streets of Lisbon, and tasting the delicious pastéis de nata together. I can already imagine the gleam in their eyes as we embark on new adventures, creating memories that will last a lifetime.Until that day comes, I will keep this diary as a testament to my unwavering love for Roni and Harper, documenting my longing for them and the dreams I hold close to my heart. My girls, though miles apart, are always with me in spirit, shining brightly like the stars above.
One day, my darlings, we will be together again, and our bond will only grow stronger with each passing moment.
With all my love,
Daddy 08/10/24
Dear Diary,
I ain't much for writing, but I got to pour out what's in my heart today. It's been a 6 months since Roni and Harper went back to the UK, and I can't shake off this longing for them. Life in the sun on the boat just ain't the same without their laughter and their energy.
Rosie, our loyal companion of three years, she's been searching for them too, sniffing the air, hoping they'll come back to see us. Her tail wags with a kind of sadness, missing the presence of Roni and Harper just as much as I do.
Our time together holds a special place in my heart. Their absence leaves a quiet that weighs heavy on me. I find myself thinking about all the little things they left behind, and it feels like pieces of them are scattered about.
I miss my girls so much. Every day, I find myself hoping and praying for the moment when they can come back to visit us. The thought of their return fills me with a warmth that cuts through the loneliness.
Till then, I hold on to the memories we made, cherishing every moment we spent together. My longing for Roni and Harper runs deep, and I can't wait for the day we are reunited.
Till next time, Diary.
-Me
Dear Roni and Harper,
Greetings from rainy Portugal! I hope this letter finds you well. As I write to you, the rain is pouring outside, creating a cozy atmosphere here at the marina.
Rosia, Katie, and I have decided to have a duvet day indoors, snuggled up while watching movies and indulging in sweets. It's the perfect way to spend a rainy day, don't you think?
We wish you were here with us, enjoying the comforts of our little movie marathon and sweet treats. Sending you warm thoughts and hoping for clear skies ahead.
Take care and stay dry!
Daddy