I'm a father being forced to fight a satanic system for his daugthers..
Psalm 91
I'm a father being forced to fight a satanic system for his daugthers..
Psalm 91
Abuse Enabled by the System Designed to Safeguard Families
Parental Alienation
Parental alienation is a form of emotional and coercive abuse in which one parent or primary caregiver engages in repeated behaviours that damage or destroy a child’s relationship with the other parent — where that parent poses no safeguarding risk to the child.
This issue concerns safe mothers, fathers, and extended family members who are
Parental alienation is a form of emotional and coercive abuse in which one parent or primary caregiver engages in repeated behaviours that damage or destroy a child’s relationship with the other parent — where that parent poses no safeguarding risk to the child.
This issue concerns safe mothers, fathers, and extended family members who are not abusive, violent, or dangerous, yet find their relationship with their child being systematically undermined.
Through persistent psychological manipulation, interference, and coercive control, the alienating parent may gradually take exclusive control over the child’s emotional world. Over time, this can erode the child’s natural attachment bond with a loving parent.
PAPA | People Against Parental Alienation | Help and Support
The Impact on the Child
The damage caused by parental alienation can be profound and long-lasting.
Children exposed to this dynamic may experience:
- Anxiety, depression, and emotional instability
- Confusion, guilt, and loyalty conflicts
- Distorted beliefs about a previously loved parent
- Identity difficulties where a parent is erased from their life
- Long-term trus
The damage caused by parental alienation can be profound and long-lasting.
Children exposed to this dynamic may experience:
- Anxiety, depression, and emotional instability
- Confusion, guilt, and loyalty conflicts
- Distorted beliefs about a previously loved parent
- Identity difficulties where a parent is erased from their life
- Long-term trust and attachment issues in adulthood
When a child is encouraged to reject a safe parent without legitimate cause, it places an overwhelming emotional burden on them.
They may internalise adult conflict, feel responsible for protecting one parent, or suppress their own memories and emotions in order to cope.
This can significantly affect their mental health, emotional development, academic performance, and overall upbringing.
Parental Alienation | The problem | Parental Alienation UK
The Impact on the Targeted Parent
The Impact on the Targeted Parent
For the parent being alienated — who poses no danger to their child — the consequences can be devastating.
Many experience:
- Severe anxiety, depression, and trauma
- Chronic stress and sleep disturbance
- Social isolation and stigma
- Financial strain from prolonged legal proceedings
- Reduced ability to work or maintain employment
- Long-term ps
For the parent being alienated — who poses no danger to their child — the consequences can be devastating.
Many experience:
- Severe anxiety, depression, and trauma
- Chronic stress and sleep disturbance
- Social isolation and stigma
- Financial strain from prolonged legal proceedings
- Reduced ability to work or maintain employment
- Long-term psychological harm
The unjustified loss of a child relationship is often described as a form of living grief.
parental Alienation
A Safeguarding Issue for Safe Parents
A Safeguarding Issue for Safe Parents
A Safeguarding Issue for Safe Parents
This campaign does not seek to protect abusive or dangerous parents.
Where genuine safeguarding concerns exist — including domestic abuse, neglect, or violence — child protection must always come first.
However, where a parent poses no safeguarding risk, and a child is being influenced to reject them through coercive and psychologically har
This campaign does not seek to protect abusive or dangerous parents.
Where genuine safeguarding concerns exist — including domestic abuse, neglect, or violence — child protection must always come first.
However, where a parent poses no safeguarding risk, and a child is being influenced to reject them through coercive and psychologically harmful behaviours, this must be recognised as emotional abuse.
Systemic Reform Is Needed
A Safeguarding Issue for Safe Parents
A Safeguarding Issue for Safe Parents
While domestic abuse and coercive control are recognised within family court proceedings, the specific pattern of behaviours commonly described as parental alienation is not consistently addressed with the same clarity.
If coercive control is recognised as harmful, then behaviours that systematically remove a safe parent from a child’s lif
While domestic abuse and coercive control are recognised within family court proceedings, the specific pattern of behaviours commonly described as parental alienation is not consistently addressed with the same clarity.
If coercive control is recognised as harmful, then behaviours that systematically remove a safe parent from a child’s life must also be treated as harmful.
Delays within the family court system can mean that safe parents are separated from their children for extended periods. The longer contact is prevented, the more entrenched the alienation can become.
For children, time matters.
Campaign Objectives
A Safeguarding Issue for Safe Parents
Campaign Objectives
This campaign calls for:
- Clear recognition within family proceedings that behaviours commonly described as parental alienation fall within the framework of emotional and coercive abuse where no safeguarding risk exists.
- A structured educational course — similar to domestic abuse awareness programmes — to be developed, rolled out nationall
This campaign calls for:
- Clear recognition within family proceedings that behaviours commonly described as parental alienation fall within the framework of emotional and coercive abuse where no safeguarding risk exists.
- A structured educational course — similar to domestic abuse awareness programmes — to be developed, rolled out nationally, and made mandatory for parents found to be actively preventing a child from maintaining a safe relationship with the other parent.
- Reform within the family court system to ensure cases involving safe, non-dangerous parents are prioritised and resolved more quickly, so that children are not left without meaningful contact for prolonged periods.
Children deserve timely decisions. Safe parents deserve access. And emotional abuse must be addressed consistently.
My children have been sepertaed from me and my family since may 2024! and there is not one reason anyone including the mother, courts, cafcass can give!
Impact on Children and Family
My children’s right to a relationship with their father is being delayed indefinitely without judicial findings to justify that delay.
This has affected:
- My children
- My mental health
- My wider family, none of whom have seen the children for nearly two years
I am effectively on hold, unable to move forward or rebuild family life, while time continues to pass without intervention.
I have watched documentaries about long-term kidnap victims describing how life becomes suspended, unable to progress. That description reflects my current reality.
Systemic Issues
This case highlights several structural problems within the family court system:
- Orders are made but not enforced
- Breaches carry no immediate consequence
- Delays extend for months or years
- Cafcass positions change without new evidence
- Children lose time with a parent while professionals reassess the same information
There is no sense of urgency, despite the developmental impact on children and the cumulative harm caused by prolonged separation.
I am one parent among many experiencing this. The common feature is not risk, but delay — and the absence of accountability when court orders are ignored.
Prayer for justice
What I am seeking is what Scripture already sets out. The Bible teaches that children are to be raised with the love, guidance, and presence of their parents: “Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord” (Ephesians 6:4), and “Train up a child in the way he should go” (Proverbs 22:6).
There have been no allegations of abuse toward my children, and no findings that I am a danger to them; the only allegations raised relate to social media posts made in 2024, after contact had already been stopped, and those posts have since been removed. Scripture is clear that justice requires truth, timeliness, and proportion: “You shall not pervert justice or show partiality” (Deuteronomy 16:19), and “Speak up and judge fairly; defend the rights of the afflicted” (Proverbs 31:9).
Children are not to be used as instruments of conflict, nor separated from a loving parent without cause: “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them” (Matthew 19:14). What should be happening is the restoration of relationship, not endless delay — because God’s design for family is protection, presence, and love, not prolonged separation without truth.
I will be praying outside a family court each week, if you would like to join me please email me for day and location LawAbidingfather@gmail.com