Why do i need to do this!

Update: The Truth – For Roni and Harper

From Daddy
Date: June 2025

1 year, 24 days, 56 weeks, 570,240 minutes since the girls have seen Daddy. 

Now Nearly 2 years as of today 8 Feb 2026

I'm now back in the UK, I've been to your school, met Mrs Hobbs, Ive drove past you.

My beautiful daughters, Roni and Harper

This isn’t just a message. It’s a permanent record of what’s really been happening — so when you’re old enough to want answers, the truth will still be here, waiting for you.

I’m writing this from Spain, where I’ve spent the last 14 months doing everything I possibly can to stay in your lives. I’ve spent £7,800 (now £12,0009 8/2/26 on legal fees, attended multiple court hearings, gone through assessments, interviews, and investigations — and through it all, one thing has never changed:

I have always been your dad. A safe, loving, present father. And I always will be.

1. The Court Agreed: I Am Safe, and Contact Is Allowed

On 27 May 2025, the Family Court made a Final Child Arrangements Order confirming that it is safe for you to speak to me and see me — including here in Spain.

There is no order preventing contact or travel — no restrictions of any kind. The court simply said that your mum and I need to agree on arrangements.

She keeps telling you that “the court won’t allow it” — but that is a lie. The only reason you’re not here with me is because she keeps saying no.

2. She Said You Could Come — Then Changed Her Mind

On 24 April 2025, Roni, you told me mummy said I could book flights. I emailed her to confirm, and she replied confirming what you’d said. I booked flights for 28 July 2025.

Then — with no warning or explanation — she changed her mind. She blocked me. She cut contact. That was after I had withdrawn a court application because she promised we were finally co-parenting again.

📎 (Exhibit EN9-A & B – Email proof of agreement and sudden refusal)

3. Roni, Remember Seeing Mummy Crying? That Was Because I Stood Up for You

Roni, during a contact session, you said this:

“Mummy was crying today. I asked her why, and she said, ‘I’ve just received a nasty email.’ I asked who from, and she said, ‘You know,’ and made a horrible face.”

That email wasn’t nasty. It was me — calmly reminding her that, under the Child Arrangements Order, she was legally required to allow our scheduled Father’s Day video call.

She had just told me Harper was “too sick” for the call — but both of you told the contact supervisor Harper wasn’t sick at all. You both said she had lied. That email was me calling her out on it — and instead of admitting it, she cried in front of you and blamed me.

That wasn’t sadness. That was manipulation — to make you feel sorry for her, and angry at me. And that’s not how love works.

📎 (Exhibit EN7 – Email to your mum, 16 June 2025 – Father's Day call)

4. I Know What You've Been Told — And It Isn’t True

You’ve been told:

• That I hurt Joanna
   
• That Mikee hurt his ex
   
• That I’m a bad man
   
• That I’d keep you in Spain

None of that is true.

These are not facts. These are lies your mum and her family told you to make you fear me — your dad. Someone you’ve never had any reason to fear.

I now have witness statements confirming these allegations are false. But more importantly — you already know the truth deep inside, because we never had fear between us. Only love.

I have been there since the beginning — at your school gates, for bedtime hugs, for birthdays, for fun and laughter. I’ve always been your protector.

These false stories are part of a deliberate attempt to alienate you from me. Not to protect you — but to punish me.

5. Your Mum Is Blocking Everything — Even Your Phones

Right now, I’m only allowed to speak to you once every two weeks.

You can’t call me. You can’t message me. My side of the family — your grandparents, uncles, aunties — have also been blocked from your phones.

This isn’t co-parenting. This is control. It’s emotional coercion. It’s keeping you cut off from love that you need.

6. Even When She Was in Trouble, I Helped Her

When your mum was arrested for drug-driving, I didn’t turn my back on her. I found her a solicitor to help save her licence — because I didn’t want her to lose the ability to take you to school or drive safely with you.

I also gave her over £1,000, including £500 each for both of you. Money that should’ve gone on your go henry card but She kept it for herself.

Even while she was stopping me seeing you, I was still helping — for you.

7. I’ve Filed a New Court Application – To Force Her to Stop This

In June 2025, I filed a new court application (Form C2) asking the court to enforce the current order and stop her from:

• Blocking your phones
   
• Cancelling contact
   
• Preventing visits to Spain
   

She can stop this whole process at any moment. All she has to do is say yes — just like she already did before she changed her mind again.

📎 (C2 application filed 17 June 2025 – With full supporting evidence)

8. You Need to Know: Parental Alienation Is Real

What you’re experiencing is called parental alienation. It’s when one parent tries to destroy the relationship between the child and the other parent — through fear, lies, guilt, and manipulation.

You might feel confused, angry, or even resentful towards me sometimes. These feelings are not your fault — they’ve been planted there by others who want to turn you against me.

And I want you to hear this from me clearly:

I understand. I forgive you. I will never hold it against you.

Please — don’t let them take away what we have. Look past the noise. Trust the bond that we built together. Trust your heart.

We are peas in a pod. Our love is unbreakable. And deep down, I know you still feel it.

9. I’m Doing This Because I Love You — Not to Hurt Her

This is not about punishing your mum. It’s about protecting your right to have both parents. To know the full truth. To grow up knowing that your dad never walked away — even when it would have been easier.

I’ve said this before, and I’ll say it again:

I am your dad. I’ve always been here. And I will never, ever stop being that — no matter how many times they try to erase me.

10. Everything Here Is True – And I’ll Keep Fighting for You

Everything I’ve written here is backed by emails, court documents, applications, and statements. It’s not gossip. It’s not emotion. It’s truth. And it will always be here, no matter what you’re told.

I want you to come back to this when you're ready.
I want you to remember how loved you are.
I want you to know:

I never left you. I never gave up. I never stopped loving you.

I never tried to hurt your mum, i tried being her friend, she hates me, your nan hates me, they are doing all they can to make you hate me to.

This is the truth. The one they’ve tried to keep from you.
And it will be here, always — as will I.

With all my love,
Daddy